Day 293

3/5/23

When I walk with my Goldens, I typically take Sam and Gus by themselves. They tend to need more of my attention than Lilly and Ranger, so I can focus on each one and their training.

My elders are so accustomed to taking their walks together. They have done this for years and seem to enjoy each other's company on our wanderings. Often, they walk side-by-side touching each other's shoulders and stop for the same sniffs along the way. They are a joy to walk!

Due to the icy sidewalks, I have begun to take Lilly and Ranger on separate walks. The first time, I noticed that each of them felt the difference and kept looking back for their sibling. The second time, both seemed more at ease without their sidekick and almost enjoyed the independence found while walking solo.

As strange as it seemed to have only one of the pair with me, I began to enjoy that time. I found myself chatting with my "walking buddy" and allowing for more "sniff time" as we went. The new bonding with each dog was something I hadn't anticipated, but I savored every step.

I realized that there are few times when I have the chance to focus on only one human as well. Often, there are numerous family members or friends at a gathering and that can lead to a scattered attention towards all.

One of my joys is spending time with Asher where he is the lone star of the show and I simply focus on that one small boy. Time alone with Mac is always a gift and we try to carve that time out as often as possible...guarding it carefully. Time alone with my own children is a bit more challenging, but I treasure every moment when it happens.

It occurred to me that precious relationships shine just a little brighter when you can give all of your attention to just one person. It doesn't happen often, but when it does it is a true gift.

Right now, I think I will find each Golden and give them a special moment of love and attention. Then, I am going to find Mac and spend a moment just holding his hand. Life is rich with opportunities to focus on love. Being conscious of those moments and grabbing them with gusto is the challenge.